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DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has an identical twin sister and I’m desperate to rip her clothes off and have sex with her.

My wife and I are in our 50s and have been together for 23 years.

I’ve fancied her twin since marital sex went out of the window after the birth of our youngest, who is now 17.

I imagine kissing and undressing my sister-in-law.

I suspect my wife knows my feelings because she keeps making comments about her when we’re alone.

She’ll ask if I prefer her sister or even bring her up when we’re arguing.

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I have sexual needs but my wife doesn’t seem to care about them.

I don’t how to solve this issue.

DEIDRE SAYS: You can not go down this road.

Your sister-in-law is unlikely to welcome your attention and you would ruin your marriage.

The solution lies in improving your connection with your wife.

So talk to her about how much you are missing intimacy.

If you reconnect with your wife, these feelings will soon melt away.

My support pack Saving Your Sex Life will help.

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